Sarah Newcomer, MS IMFT CST
Queer, Kinky, Chocolate Lover
(She/They/Them)
Authenticity, Honesty, and a Relaxed Atmosphere – That's What You'll Find Here!

Sarah Newcomer, MS IMFT CST
Sex and Relationship Therapist
I will work with you to help you get unstuck from your rut. I use real science backed approaches like Emotion Focused therapy as well as Gottman method in a structured and focused process to help you get back on the path to connection. Getting unstuck looks different for everyone, but this is where I can help with my training and expertise.
This isn't a "one size fits all" situation, this is your relationship, so treatment is tailored to you.
I will provide all the research, approaches, and options that we can look at together. I will be your guide in learning how to better communicate and create better intimacy, based on goals we create together from interviews with you and your partner as well as your personalized Gottman Relationship Check-up assessment.
My goal is to "work me out of a job". I want you and your partner(s) to feel empowered to create lasting change and create greater connection.
I am not a "bobble head" nod and smile kinda therapist...
Here's the deal: I don't believe in sugarcoating or beating around the bush. I embrace a laid-back atmosphere where we can have honest conversations that get to the heart of the matter. And yes, that means I may drop a few colorful words along the way. I understand that sometimes a well-placed curse word can capture the depth of your emotions like nothing else.
I will also ask things that take a deeper look into your situation, your experiences and thoughts like:
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What is your experience when you argue?
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What happens in you when they walk away?
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I will reflect back to make sure I understand, because YOU'RE the expert
I invite you to look over my training and experience to see the difference that seeing a relationship specialist can bring to your love life. See it here.