Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between | Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between |

Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between | Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between |

| Serving all relationships • dating • married • verge of divorce • engaged • polycules • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between | Serving all relationships • dating • married • verge of divorce • engaged • polycules • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between

| Serving all relationships • dating • married • verge of divorce • engaged • polycules • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between

You used to laugh more. Touch more. Now every talk turns into a debate, arguments go in circles, and you’re wondering when connection started feeling like work.

Let’s be honest, you’ve probably felt one of these lately:

Nothing in common anymore

He is addicted to Porn

Feeling like roommates

feeling misunderstood

Arguing in circles that leave you wondering “Why are we together?” 

Sleepless at the thought of divorce or separation. 

mismatched desire

We don’t talk anymore

same fight.
different day.

sex feels like pressure

i do not feel heard

it is always
a debate

i am tired of
trying first

feels like we are roommates

If every fight feels like déjà vu, you’re not imagining it, you’re caught in a loop that keeps replaying the same story.

Using the science-backed Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help you spot what’s really going on underneath and break the cycle for good.

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Licensed in Ohio, Florida, Oregon and New Jersey

Hey there! I’m Sarah Newcomer, a neurodivergent therapist who loves a well-placed curse word and real conversations about what actually makes relationships work. I specialize in relationships that are stuck on repeat, just like yours.

I help partners get out of their cycles and back to connection using science-based approaches, humor, and honest, direct conversations.

As an Independent Marriage & Family Therapist and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, I bring structure when things feel chaotic and compassion when things get hard. If you’re wondering what it’s like to work with someone who keeps it real (and occasionally swears), you’re in the right place.

Sex Therapy

Worried your relationship might not make it? With research-backed approaches like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, we’ll work together to rebuild trust, deepen understanding, and help you both feel heard again

Couples Threapy

MARRIAGE ISSUES

Polyam and Open 
Relationships

intensives

Polyam and Open Relationships

Couples therapy

You want a therapist who gets that love doesn’t always fit in a box. Whether your relationship is poly, open, or still finding its shape, you deserve a space that celebrates that. With professional training and personal understanding of nonmonogamous relationships, I help partners navigate connection, communication, and care without shame.

Polyam and Open Relationships

sex therapy

intensives

sex therapy

couples therapy

It’s not always just about sex, but sometimes, that’s where the tension shows up. Maybe every argument seems to circle back to intimacy, or the lack of it. As one of the few Marriage & Family Therapists who’s also AASECT-Certified in Sex Therapy, I help couples unpack what’s really underneath those patterns and rebuild connection that feels safe, curious, and alive again

sex therapy

Polyam and Open Relationships

intensives

Intimacy Concerns

Marriage Issues

Sometimes waiting weeks between sessions isn’t enough. Intensives give you focused time to dive deep, moving through gridlock, rebuilding safety, and finding your way back to each other faster. 

Intensives: Fast-Track Support for Lifelong Connection

Polyam and Open Relationship Challenges

intensives

You’re ready to end the cycle, and have connection that lasts 

You’ve tried to hold it all together, but the same arguments keep circling back. It’s time to get some backup. You need someone who understands the emotional chaos, the communication loops, and the intimacy blocks that keep you spinning.

As an Independent Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, I’ll help you make sense of what’s happening and guide you toward calm, clarity, and connection that actually lasts.

Ready to see what change could look like? Book a consult call and let’s start figuring this out together.

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