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Science-based couples therapy that breaks the loop.
Nothing in common anymore
He is addicted to Porn
Feeling like roommates
feeling misunderstood
Arguing in circles that leave you wondering “Why are we together?”
Sleepless at the thought of divorce or separation.
mismatched desire
We don’t talk anymore
same fight.
different day.
sex feels like pressure
i do not feel heard
it is always
a debate
i am tired of
trying first
feels like we are roommates
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Hey there! I’m Sarah Newcomer, a neurodivergent therapist who loves a well-placed curse word and real conversations about what actually makes relationships work. I specialize in relationships that are stuck on repeat, just like yours.
I help partners get out of their cycles and back to connection using science-based approaches, humor, and honest, direct conversations.
As an Independent Marriage & Family Therapist and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, I bring structure when things feel chaotic and compassion when things get hard. If you’re wondering what it’s like to work with someone who keeps it real (and occasionally swears), you’re in the right place.
Worried your relationship might not make it? With research-backed approaches like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, we’ll work together to rebuild trust, deepen understanding, and help you both feel heard again
Couples Threapy
You want a therapist who gets that love doesn’t always fit in a box. Whether your relationship is poly, open, or still finding its shape, you deserve a space that celebrates that. With professional training and personal understanding of nonmonogamous relationships, I help partners navigate connection, communication, and care without shame.
Polyam and Open Relationships
It’s not always just about sex, but sometimes, that’s where the tension shows up. Maybe every argument seems to circle back to intimacy, or the lack of it. As one of the few Marriage & Family Therapists who’s also AASECT-Certified in Sex Therapy, I help couples unpack what’s really underneath those patterns and rebuild connection that feels safe, curious, and alive again
sex therapy
Sometimes waiting weeks between sessions isn’t enough. Intensives give you focused time to dive deep, moving through gridlock, rebuilding safety, and finding your way back to each other faster.
Intensives: Fast-Track Support for Lifelong Connection
You’ve tried to hold it all together, but the same arguments keep circling back. It’s time to get some backup. You need someone who understands the emotional chaos, the communication loops, and the intimacy blocks that keep you spinning.
As an Independent Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, I’ll help you make sense of what’s happening and guide you toward calm, clarity, and connection that actually lasts.
Ready to see what change could look like? Book a consult call and let’s start figuring this out together.
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